Saturday, December 27, 2008

Reflections on Win-Win

In today's dog eat dog competition is "Win-Win" possible? when we are concerned for our "win"do we care this Win-Win....but....hold on...Why do I use dog eat dog competition...like phrases.To a great extent it depends upon how do I perceive these outcomes.Isn't it?

say for example my friend and I appear for an interview. He gets selected and I am not...can it be a "win win" situation for me?.... It's "win" situation for my friend( I assume) as he is selected, and for me can it be a "win" situation too, because he(my friend) is selected...Yes,it can be.

ActuallyI see flaw in my thinking(that I have accumulated till now) that seeks my own benifit at the cost of others in any situation... and here is this win win approach ...probably giving us one of the important messages of our Vedas"SANGACHADWAM,SAMVADADWAM,SAMVOMANASI JANATAM"(lets go together,let's speak together and there be a uniformity in our actions and in our heart).

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